If after our first post, you are unable to take your wife to a hotel, why not try giving her a hotel/spa experience at home?  A few steps could induce the same relaxation and freedom of staying in a hotel without the obvious benefit of being somewhere else.

1. Tidy the bedroom so it’s spotless.  Fresh white sheets if possible.  Absolutely zero clutter.
2. Get her a spa robe.  Extra points if it’s soft and warm.  Use a dryer or radiator.
3. Have lots of spare towels in the house.  There are cheap ones in IKEA.  Only problems is they don’t last long.  However they’re always good for point number 3 and for relaxing about making a mess during sex.
4. If you have space for it, buy a massage table.  They fold away and are about £60 on Amazon.
5. Get some massage oils.  I don’t need to tell you what to do with that.
6. Dim the lights or turn them off and use scented candles.  Easy way to build up that spa atmosphere.
7. When giving her a massage, play a spa playlist from Youtube.  There are many 1 hour videos with that relaxing massage music.
8. Every Christmas time, a lot of shops stock fancy looking “spa products” at “discount prices” because they make easy gifts.  Buy some to use at home.  Let’s be honest, a lot of us don’t know what’s in those products you pay big money for in the spa.  Sometimes if it looks fancy, that’s all that matters.  If you want to spend a bit of money but not too much, ask for help with giving a home spa experience at the Body Shop.  They do have nice products at mid-range prices.
9. Feel free to nab those little bottles and toiletries you get when you do go to hotels.  Bringing them out do add a light-hearted realism to the atmosphere you’re trying to build
10. Fold the toilet roll in the toilet into that little triangle like they do in hotels to let you know they’ve serviced your room.
11. Print your own little room service menu but with a twist like only one meal (dinner you’ve cooked), her favourite local takeaways, or sexual acts.  Then ask her to order from the menu when she’s ready.
12. If you can, meet her at the door like a hotel receptionist/bellboy/concierge.  She will laugh at you but she will relax.

 

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